In Europe, their wives are now getting rid of the unmarried life and they look at the married life of Muslim women with envious eyes. Similarly, we have a small number of women but some of them are running away from their married life.
We cannot justify it by calling it the result of sexual
misconduct or feminist movements.
Because there are definitely undeniable reasons that make
married life scary
Islam is the religion of nature and the religion of
humanity. It has given Muslims a system of society in which the rights and
duties of human life and individuals of all classes have been defined.
Especially with regard to the rights and duties of husband and wife. The
teachings are very clear. In Islam, the relationship between husband and wife
regarding rights and duties and the basis of this relationship is very
enduring.
In the first verses of Surah An-Nisa ', Allah (swt)
describes the creative union of man and woman and says: I created you from a
single soul.
This was a multiplication of class distinctions, ie men and women are creatively equal. You will see that the Qur'an gave human rights to women at a time when they were considered very low and inferior and there is no room for any doubt.
They considered her to be a creature born of a lower
substance and a man born of a higher element, some considered her only a
luxury, as in present day Europe and some people even said that woman was born
of filth and considered her creator, creator and Arab woman in ignorance. He
was created in human form to serve a man and fulfill his sexual desires.
Islam equated woman with creation
Then, granting equal
rights, he obliged both of them to pay each other's dues
Yes, divide the responsibilities
But unfortunately the rules and regulations that we have are
not Islamic at all. They are a replica of the national, regional or Hindu
customs that we are hiding in the guise of Islam.
The first difference begins at birth
When a boy is born, his face becomes bright. When a girl is
born, her face withers, then there is a difference in education and training.
The child will become a doctor, engineer, scientist, but the
girl is made benevolent only by giving her proper education
Then their legitimate and prescribed inheritance is robbed
In the case of the same marriage
The boy's likes and dislikes are taken care of but in most rural areas the girl is not allowed to like or dislike
Where parents look for a male for a girl, not a male
Although marriage is not just a name for sexual gratification but a multi-purpose agreement, it is a bond of generations.
That is why Shari'a established a permanent chapter on the
mutual rights of couples
So that both of them can make their married life happy and get the real fruits of it. But unfortunately in our country, married life is started without knowing the principles of Shariah. As a result, in the last two or three decades, in our society, apart from the incidents of brutal dowry and burning alive, divorce and khula I am gradually increasing and generations are being destroyed.
Therefore, before establishing a marital life, it is important
to seek guidance from these teachings so that the purpose of marriage and its
fruits can be achieved properly.
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