Found a loved one's wedding card,
During the conversation it was found out that he has spent Rs. 22 lakhs! Remember that in our country marriages usually take place in the family, one of the reasons is that so many wasteful expenses can be avoided! Rather, the sand of marriage may have fallen on the families so as not to incur extravagant expenses and perform the duty in a simple ceremony!
The Ultimate Ganges is flowing nowadays!
The first conditions for getting married in the family include ten to twenty tolas of jewelry plus five million other miscellaneous items! Now watch the spectacle. If the boys are spending Rs 2 million on expenses, then the girls will spend the same amount on dowry etc.! Thus the marriage in the family cost 45 million.
There is no point in all this exercise except a loose wow wow! If the two families had invested the same amount in a business together, generations would have benefited. The middle class is the middle class because it always deals with losses when it comes to investing in children!
After the wedding, the married couple pays for the expenses incurred on the wedding, so they meet on the honeymoon instead of rejoicing. The next morning, the mother-in-law and father-in-law start issuing separate instructions. In this way, the new journey of the girl and the boy becomes a spectacle with difficulties in the beginning!
If you think about it, it is the parents who make the deal and the recruits are the children!
Hey brother, what is the need to give a new beginning to children by putting undue burden on them for false glory? In which scripture is it written that it is haraam to spread one's legs more than one's chador?
Talk about rubbing salt in my wounds - d'oh! These are the prayers, these fasts, these recitations, these smoky speeches on the loudspeakers of the mosques. If the essence of religion does not suit you or the clerics do not understand it, then all this practice is useless!
The Holy Prophet had married Hazrat Maimuna as soon as he opened the ihram of Hajj. Similarly, he married Hazrat Rehana at the end of the battle! Don't these two marriages teach a lesson of simplicity?
In short, no Muslim can become a perfect human being unless he adopts the thinking of the Messenger of Allah! No matter how many others like him, it will be a copy-paste. The real religion will not be the one brought by the Messenger of Allah.
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